Your place

Arnold Min­dell (the founder of process psy­chol­ogy) em­pha­sizes that it’s no co­in­ci­dence when we feel par­tic­u­larly good in cer­tain places. The en­ergy of these places is in har­mony with the deep­est parts of our­selves.

The same ap­plies to cou­ples. When you are hav­ing a dif­fi­cult time, go to a place which has spe­cial mem­o­ries for you (even if you go in your imag­i­na­tion!) Allow the at­mos­phere of that place to re­mind you that you have much more that brings you to­gether than un­paid bills and un­washed socks…

Each of these cou­ples thinks that their choice is the best.